Jewish Parents, Grandparents, and Christmas
Many Jewish parents and grandparents worry their children and grandchildren will feel “left out” during the Christmas season. Afterall, their Christian friends have a decorated tree in their homes, receive gifts from parents and friends, and celebrate the holiday. In addition, they are surrounded by Christmas lights and festivities on public display.
What should Jewish parents do?
My suggestion is to observe and celebrate the beautiful Jewish holidays that occur throughout the year in ways that are memorable and meaningful. Building and decorating a sukkah or joining others in their sukkah for lunch or dinner is a great way to celebrate our Judaism. And if you sing some songs together, all the better.
Or, dress your children up on Purim and bring them to the synagogue for the reading of the Megillah.
Families who regularly light Shabbat candles and enjoy a Shabbat dinner starting with the Kiddush and haMotzi, followed by an enjoyable discussion with family and friends, are very unlikely to feel left out at Christmas. Afterall, they celebrate their Judaism every week.
Rather than be concerned that our children feel left out at this time of year, let’s make their Jewish experiences memorable and meaningful all year long.
— Rabbi David Woznica
Rabbi David Woznica can be reached via email here.