In the latest edition of his Search for Meaning podcast, Stephen Wise Temple Senior Rabbi Yoshi Zweiback hosts Wise’s Chief Engagement Officer, Rabbi Sari Laufer. The wide-ranging talk between two colleagues covers Israel, summer camps, sign language, their respective Torah portions, authenticity, and the recent Supreme Court decision to restrict reproductive freedoms in Dobbs v. Jackson.
The topic of Rabbi Sari’s early Jewish learning brings up the subject of gender equity and representation.
A tangent about how New Yorkers use hands to talk—Rabbi Sari just finished reading “True Biz,” a novel about the deaf community, which is all about non-verbal communication—leads to a fascinating discussion about liturgical sign language interpreters.
All of these are weaved into the story of how Rabbi Sari came to find her calling, and how she came to Wise.
The only child of a Conservadox mom and a classical Reform dad (both from Long Island), Rabbi Sari’s story covers growing up in Manhattan, spending her summers at camp, her first trip to Israel, and her desire to work for the State Department and help solve the Middle East peace crisis.
A lover of languages (and now an avid viewer of Apple TV+’s “Tehran”), she was set to learn Hebrew and Arabic when she got to Northwestern University. When she arrived, though, she experienced something new: As a Jew, she was a minority. Growing up in New York, “There were no shortage of Jews,” she says. “That was the overriding culture in New York City. All of these things are so baked in.”
She sought out Jewish community in a way that she never had, and took a class that would change her life: Introduction to Judaism. For the first time, she encountered the academic side of Judaism—theology, theodicy, and philosophy—and fell in love.