This week’s Torah portion includes 15 of the most well-known and well-loved words in the entire Torah, words that parents use to bless their children on Friday evenings as Shabbat arrives, words that rabbis and cantors use from the pulpit to bless b’nai mitzvah and conclude worship services:

May God bless you and keep you,
Be gracious unto you,
And grant you peace.

יְבָרֶכְךָ֥ יְיָ וְיִשְׁמְרֶֽךָ׃
יָאֵ֨ר יְיָ פָּנָ֛יו אֵלֶ֖יךָ וִֽיחֻנֶּֽךָּ׃
יִשָּׂ֨א יְיָ פָּנָיו֙ אֵלֶ֔יךָ וְיָשֵׂ֥ם לְךָ֖ שָׁלֽוֹם׃

A few years ago, during the darkest days of the pandemic, I found great comfort not only in words like these from our beautiful tradition, but also through the practice of meditation taught to me by my instructors at the Institute for Jewish Spirituality.

In my favorite practice—”Befriending Meditation”—the guide asks us—the participants—to think of ourselves, those we love, and even those with whom we are experiencing difficult interactions and wish for ourselves and others the following:

May we be safe and free from suffering.
May we be happy and healthy.
May we have ease of being. 

It occurred to me that this meditation, practiced widely all over the world, parallels and compliments our Priestly Benediction nicely. This shouldn’t come as a surprise—quite often we see examples of how people in different places at different times are graced with similar insights.

I’m grateful for a tradition that embeds such blessings in our rituals and our lives. And I’m grateful for the ability to continue learning and growing so that we might be exposed to the wisdom and insights of the broader world as well.

However it’s phrased, however it’s expressed, whatever melody might be employed to uplift the text and sweeten the sentiment, my prayer for our community, my loved ones, and our world is simple:

May you be safe and healthy.
May you know kindness and love.
May you experience a deep sense of wholeness and peace—shalom.

(Enjoy these links to a musical setting of the Priestly Benediction and a guided Befriending Meditation.)

—Rabbi Yoshi