We are in the season of graduations. This week Rabbi Woznica shares some messages to graduates.
Dear Graduate,
In the 1980s, the state of California created a task force to promote self-esteem. Earned, healthy self-esteem may indeed be helpful in navigating life’s challenges.
Yet, more important than self-esteem is self-control. I learned this from the Torah, which reminds us not to follow our heart and eyes, which can lead us astray. (Numbers 15:39)
To be a good person often requires internal struggle. Sometimes, our heart and our desires lead us in one direction, while goodness and kindness may lie down a different path. The secular world suggests the most significant challenges we face are between us and society. That is why so much effort is directed toward changing society. I believe Judaism holds that the most significant challenge we face is internal: overcoming our desires. We are taught in Pirkei Avot, “Who is strong, the person who overcomes his (evil) inclinations.” (Chapter 4)
Obtaining self-control is a key to happiness and goodness. It’s a journey well worth the effort.
Rabbi David Woznica
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