Daily Kavanot
Writings of reflection by the Stephen Wise Temple clergy.
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Daily Kavanah – Monday, December 30, 2024
Tonight we light the 6th candle of HanukkahI love giving gifts. I actually prefer giving them for no occasion; I love seeing something that makes me think of a loved one, and sharing that thought with them in a tangible form. And, some of the favorite gifts that I have loved the most were given in a similar spirit.In 1992, Gary Chapman, a Baptist minister, published what is now a bestselling book: The Five Love Languages. While I have read plenty on why the book is problematic, the premise is very simple. He posits—and then describes—how different people with different personalities give and receive love in different ways. For Chapman, one of the love languages is receiving gifts; I would suggest that gift-giving is also a love language. All that to say: I am not a gift grinch!And as a parent, I am seeking ways of toning down the consumerism, of [...]
Daily Kavanah – Friday, December 27, 2024
Even though IDF troops are still actively engaged in battle and suffering losses each week, and notwithstanding the continued urgency felt for securing the release of the hostages, it feels a bit lighter and more hopeful on this trip to Israel. Part of what contributes to this feeling is the purpose and mission of our group. In addition to demonstrating our solidarity and love, beyond learning about Israel and its history and connecting with our people here, we also have three young members of our group who will become bar and bat mitzvah tomorrow; chanting ancient words of Torah in the eternal city of Jerusalem. We’re here not just for solidarity but also for celebration. It also feels like, despite the challenges and trauma, we are turning a corner finally and some sort of resolution is near. There is the joy of Hanukkah and a feeling of being able [...]
Daily Kavanah – Thursday, December 26, 2024
There’s something special about having a holiday whose name literally means “dedication” falling right around the secular new year. While Hanukkah celebrates the rededication of the Temple in Jerusalem, many embrace the secular new year as an opportunity for resolutions and fresh starts. This year, rather than considering new year's resolutions, I am thinking about personal Hanukkah rededications as a way to reflect and look ahead.This started for me two weeks ago when my rabbinical school classmates and I gathered together for a latke “fry-off”. We scheduled it weeks in advance to accommodate everyone’s busy schedules and took a pause from our final papers to fry up the best latkes we could muster. We ended up with nine different types of latkes (classic, pickle, curry, onion ring, and a few more!) and a night of beautiful togetherness. While we see each other regularly in class, this was somehow the first [...]
Daily Kavanah – Wednesday, December 25, 2024
To someone who doesn’t pay attention to the Hebrew calendar, Hanukkah falling right around Christmas may not seem particularly abnormal. To others, it may feel like Hanukkah is extremely late this year. Regardless, Hanukkah always arrives on time on the Hebrew calendar—on the 25th of Kislev.Personally, I love that Hanukkah this year falls after the Winter Solstice because it means that we are truly increasing our light each day of Hanukkah as we add another candle.Rabbi Dalia Marx, in her book From Time to Time, teaches:The two systems for lighting Hanukkah lights represent different worldviews...According to Shammai, the world was created whole and perfect, and ever since then, "the generations are successively diminished." Following this approach, human beings are born with their full potential, with all their lives ahead to achieve it, but each passing day brings them closer to the end and serves as a depressing reminder of what they [...]
Daily Kavanah – Tuesday, December 24, 2024
This year, in preparation for Hanukkah, I have been embracing the song Banu Choshech Legaresh, meaning “We Came to Expel the Darkness”. Written by Sarah Levi-Tanai, it is extremely popular in Israel but is lesser known among American Jews.We came to drive away the darknessin our hands is light and fire.Everyone is a small light,and together we are a powerful light.Fight darkness, further blacknessFight because of the lightבאנו חושך לגרש,בידינו אור ואש,כל אחד הוא אור קטן,וכולנו אור איתןסורה חושך, הלאה שחורסורה, מפני האורSarah Levi-Tanai was born into a Yemenite Jewish family that settled in pre-state Israel in the 19th century. From a young age, she saw the darkness in the world when she and her family were deported from Jaffa by the Ottoman authorities and moved to a refugee camp. She was eventually orphaned and lived in a children’s home until she went to school to become a nursery school teacher. Despite [...]