by Rabbi David Woznica
A group of thoughtful and generous philanthropists in the Jewish community recently gathered in Los Angeles for an event. Before addressing the group, I was involved in a preliminary dinner conversation which yielded a common concern: Would their children follow in their footsteps and be philanthropic?
To the credit of many Jews, it’s an important question.
The consensus was that if they could instill empathy in their children, they would become givers. Essentially, the thinking went like this: If we can get our children to understand and identify with the plight of those in need, or the importance of supporting important causes, then they will give.
The discussion highlighted the difference between a secular and religious approach to giving, indeed to life. Judaism teaches that it is a mitzvah (commandment) and therefore an obligation to give tzedakah. Our tradition doesn’t rely on empathy, as important as it is, to compel us to give. Religious teachings and a religious environment center on our obligations, not emotions or feelings when it comes to doing good. It’s not only true when it comes to charity; it’s a different view of the world. The secular question is “How do I feel?”. The religious question is “Have I fulfilled my responsibility?” Ironically, often, by giving, you become empathetic.
Religion, done well, instills a sense of moral obligation and responsibility. It makes for a better person and ultimately for a better world.
With wishes for a Shabbat Shalom.
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