Tips for creating holy space for holy time

   by Rabbi Sari Laufer, inspired by Rabbi Elyse Goldstein

Almost 2,000 years ago, the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem upended the Jewish community. Finding themselves in physical and spiritual exile, they recreated the community through rituals, prayers, and sacred times. The sages imagined individuals’ homes, not just local synagogues, to be mikdashei me’at, “miniature sanctuaries.”

In the spirit of the mikdash me’at, the “miniature sanctuary,” we offer these suggestions to create holy space for this holy time.

DEDICATE a space for your worship and learning experiences. Is there a view that makes you feel inspired? Is there a particular chair that will be most comfortable? If you’ve been working at home, try to pick a different space that feels set apart.

DECORATE your space. Do you have a special tablecloth, a favorite throw, or pillow? Are there pictures you want to look at? Take time to make the space feel fresh and festive.

RITUALIZE. Do you have special candlesticks or a family kiddush cup? Maybe you have a shofar. Make sure to have those with you as well.

CONNECT. Test your tech to make sure you’re ready to go. Visit our High Holy Days site to view all of the ways you can participate in Wise’s broadcasts. Tune into a Friday evening Shabbat service ahead of time. Check in with us by phone at 310.476.8561 or via email ([email protected]). If you are watching alone, reach out to a friend beforehand so you know that you are watching together.

DISCONNECT. Turn off distractions so you can focus and participate in our worship services and learning experiences. Close tabs and windows you don’t need. Silence your phone if you’re not using it to participate.

ACCESSORIZE. Pick a special outfit, something that makes you feel great and comfortable! Note that it is traditional to wear white on Yom Kippur. If you normally wear a tallit during morning services, make sure you have it ready; same goes for a kippah.

BE PRESENT. We are excited to be together with you—even from afar. We hope you will participate in deep and meaningful ways, just as you would in person. Sing loudly, smile, nod, laugh, and cry.

Breathe. Reflect. Repent. Renew.
Shanah Tovah!